cbox nonsense (PLEASE READ)

[rosalyndeblack]

okay, sooo... i just saw what happened in the cbox, and WHOA.

not really necessary.

BUT, i would like to say something.

don't present a problem like you're looking for advice (ie. 'i don't know what to dooo!' 'i'm so confuuused,' etc.) if you're just going to tell the people who are trying to help you every reason they're wrong, and be flat out rude to people who are- let me say this again- TRYING TO HELP YOU, and trying to be nice to you.

and this totally isn't targeted at just one person; i've seen it a few times. but it really makes people not want to help you anymore, and it makes them feel bad.

i guess what i'm trying to say is, if you want to bitch, bitch away. seriously. i get it. it's nice to vent.

but don't act like you want help if you're just going to be an asshole to people who try to help you. it's rude, and it hurts people's feelings when you shut them down when all they're doing is trying to be a friend to you.

that is all.

xoxo,
julia

[izzy]

Due to the amount of "nonsense" in the cbox, please keep an eye on the possibility of new, changed and updated rules.

[JURATE]

... What the hell did I miss now!?!?

[CASIDHE TRYSTEN CATARA]

From what I saw, someone asked for advice in the cbox, realized they'd rather deal with it on their own (possibly stop any more cbox drama), and said so. people with advice on hand got offended their opinion was no longer needed. then a troll/anon came on and proceeded to say mean things about people.

at least, this is what I got from it before I simply stopped watching.

Perhaps if you need to rant, maybe make it more personal and IM/PM a friend instead of making something so public as using a cbox. At least about sensitive matters? :/