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Post by ALLY on Jan 17, 2012 4:09:37 GMT
i have noticed a problem with the cbox for a while now, and i have talked to more than one person about this. now, this may not seem like a big deal or anything, but to who this is happening to, it is really hurtful.
in the cbox, when someone says hello to everyone, it would be at least decent of you to acknowledge that they exist. many people of nightmare have said the same thing, and frankly i'm tired of it.
just because you don't plot or thread with someone doesn't mean you don't have to talk to them. people feel left out, like they aren't "cool" enough or "good" enough to talk to, and it's completely not true. you all need to get your heads out of your asses and talk to people even if you don't like them. it's just rude to not even acknowledge someone's presence.
now, i'm not saying that anyone of you specifically is doing this, and im not saying you only do this to a few certain people, but really, im tired of it.
im also not saying that anyone has a hate for people here, but sometimes it just feels like there is only love for a certain few people.
i love you all, and if you have anything else to say, don't hessitate to add to this.
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Post by JURATE on Jan 17, 2012 14:06:13 GMT
What Ally said. I know I have not been on for two days, and I don't really know what is going on most of the time, but I do not want anyone feeling like they don't belong because everyone is friends with each other and if they're either new, or they don't plot with you. You should talk to everyone, and I hope that everyone on Nightmare will take this into consideration because truly, everyone on this site is loved and I don't really like coming back to people feeling like they're being excluded or don't exist. Y'all are more amazing than this. Seriously. (:
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Post by izzy on Jan 17, 2012 17:37:06 GMT
Couldn't have said it better myself. I agree, even just a quick thing of hi so-and-so, you don't even need to be fancy about it, and that means a lot more than definitely just...ignoring someone. I do understand some people get into tangents of posting stuff, and having fun with each other, but like Ally and Jurate have already said, just a quick hi and then get back to your fangirling/boying. <3
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Post by dahlia on Feb 1, 2012 23:02:44 GMT
I agree with this also, but I'm still finding that some people do this to other people purposely. I'm not calling out names but there has been a few "situations" in the cbox especially, but also outside of it that have only brought a heated situation. We just also need to remember that on this site we are a family and families don't ignore each other. I'm just commenting on this simply because I'm friends with everyone on here and I talk to people outside of the cbox and get told about these certain issues and one of them was a few people being ignored while they were in the cbox. Not just one or two, but a group, so I'm asking that everyone make an effort towards this because obviously it has not entirely changed. I hope I have not crossed a line with this, but I really just want to see everyone happy because after all, it's a roleplay site. We come here to meet people, enjoy their company, and write in unison together. At least, please think about what I'm saying. Either way thank you all who have given an effort to work through this issue.
- Cambunny
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Post by BASIL XAIDEN PRIOR on Feb 9, 2012 22:14:15 GMT
DRAMAS IN THE CBOX?!?*ahem* Couldn't help it xD But if I don't say hello to anyone specifically or I don't respond to someone right off, I'm sorry. I get distracted easily, and it's more my style to say hai to everyone in general. :]
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Post by izzy on Mar 1, 2012 3:16:20 GMT
Another thing I've been noticing lately and have heard from a few different people - being ignored continuously. Not so much the hello, but if someone mentions someone, no one answers it and continues on their conversation. I'm noticing it a lot, I understand the good friends and everything, trust me I do, but don't leave people out, right?
Okay, start the hating if you need to. o.o I just wanted to throw that out there.
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Post by jackson on Mar 5, 2012 15:18:26 GMT
well, personally, i hate camille. like, soooo much. i can't help but ignore her in the c-box. and jurate smells. (: ilu. keekee jokes. c-box love always. as a returning member, i will do my best to uphold the standards of our lovely internet home.<3
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Post by JURATE on Mar 5, 2012 16:42:03 GMT
Hahaha Kiki, that made my day *laughs like a mad woman*
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Post by mystique on Mar 6, 2012 3:46:37 GMT
Hhahahah oh kiki love <3 :3 how i've missed you so much :3
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